Morality and Herpes Question?

I feel for you, however; I do believe you were wrong for not telling the first guy and I do believe that is not right for you not to tell this second guy. I don't know how you stumbled across this STD, but sadly people now have the choice to actual want to deal with you on that level because what you have is not curable. As I said I'm sorry for it, you seem very nice and well educated but tell the guy what you have.