Now what do I say that I told him I have herpes?

Hey all. There's this guy I've been having a thing with for a long time. So tonight, I went to his place, we began making out and I performed oral sex on him. (It's not as cheap as it sounds, we had lots of conversation). Anyway, so, we were going to do the REAL THING and I had told him, before we started, that I have hsv-1 genital. He got kinda freaked out, and sat there for a while but things got back to normal. So, we went back to making out and he used a condom on his hand to...well, you know. And it was okay. After that we talked for a while, and I went back home. I feel like, I don't know what to say now. He doesn't know what to say. I really liked him, and it sucks that my herpes got in the way. I haven't had an outbreak in years, but I'm still cautious. We had such a HUGE sex drive and wanted to experience it, but I had to tell him. What happens next?