Saturday, August 6, 2011

Helllllllp me. DESPERATE for a BABY. husband seems NOT BOTHERED?

I'm a 26yr old female and myself and my husband are disputing this. Basically he wants me to wait to try for a baby until after I've completed a yr long education course that i am taking on next September. I do not want to wait this long. We have lots of money and hiring help is not an issue. I have a housekeeper and a nanny already. I just want to complete my family before i'm 30 and not end up being some sad old mum who has to revert to IVF (which we know doesnt work ...ever) . I would hate to have to be so desperate as to pump my body full of drugs to do what is the most natural thing in the world for normal healthy woman. So hence, i do not want to delay this. Also i do not want some huge age gap between my children. They are 8yrs, 6yrs, 4yrs, 3yrs and an 18 month old. I'm just ready to make it no.5 NOW and perhaps finish my family at No. 6 by the time i'm 30, 31 AT MOST. Taking this on will not be a challenge. I have lots of support. The school and nursery is 5 mins walk from our home. My two sisters live around the corner, both stay at home mums. And i have a plethora of friends in the neighbourhood, all stay at home mums. Plus hired helps no problem, moneys not an issue. Whys my husband holding out?

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