Adoption is my plan A? Is this morally strange.?

I totally understand how you feel. My husband and i have tried for 7 years to have kids naturally.. we found out it is a little of both of us.. we were upset at first but now after a year were over it.. we actually just started our adoption proesses.. so i really do understand.. as far as telling anyone.. you dont have to if you dont want too.. we dont and if someone makes a comment on why we dont have children we just say were adopting.. my husband and i are very open about our plans to adopt.. but that is totally up to you.. i read many books on this subject so the more you tell the more of a chance of finding a match.. you an also go to adoption family circle for more information on adoption or other forum.. i also go on cafe mom for adoption forums.. adoption is actually just as costly as IVF depending where you live.. such as here is like 12 grand but thats just the one procedure not anything else.. so just have to weight your options.. if you want anymore info you can email me.. hope this helps.. have a great day.